From Lack to ABUNDANCE - How to PERMANENTLY shift to an Abundance Mindset
Listen, we all have some sort of "lack" that we feel or experience internally.
Whether it be in finances, physical or mental health, love, friendships, or just lack of resources, there is not one being on this fucking universe that has not experienced this feeling.
Now for some of us though, it's going to be a little harder to really get out of a lack mindset if we feel that we have it in a lot of areas in our life.
I am sure that you clicked on this story because you are trying to manifest more money, as that is the main source of "lack" that many of us experience. Well it's your lucky fucking day, because I am going lay down some REAL advice to point you towards that journey that you have always dreamed of.
Notice how I said point you towards it, because it does not just change all in one day, nor will I be another scamming asshole that will lie and give fake promises of it happening overnight.
What we will be going over in this article:
My own personal story with shifting to an abundance mindset
The root cause of your lack mindset
The steps to start shifting to an abundance mindset
How to permanently keep your abundance mindset
The secret language of attaining abundance
Okay, ready? Let's fucking go.
If you were anything like me growing up, you were told that "money doesn't just grow on trees" and sold the whole "rich people are greedy" story. You may have not come from a lot of money. In fact, if you were really like me, you came from a poverty background; Your entire environment was just trying to survive.
When you did get food, you kept it all to yourself and was not willing to share, because you didn't know when or what your next meal was going to be. You may have developed a poor relationship with food growing up, like binge eating or going through a binge/restrict cycle. This subconsciously enabled the all around lack mindset.
You didn't have a lot of friends growing up either, and the ones that you did have didn't stick around for long. When you did get a friend, you immediately clung onto them so tightly that a looser grip felt completely out of control. Your worth was tied to if someone liked you, and what you could do to get them to like you because you felt like you didn't have many options.
When it came to getting a job, you clung to any job that would pay you money, despite the shitty fucking managers, hours, and pay, because you subconsciously already believed that it was "good enough" and it was all you could find.
And if you were anything like me, you didn't realize your own worth.
Also notice how I said REALIZE, not grow or prove your own worth. IT'S ALREADY THERE. You just have to realize it.
Ok great, so how the fuck can I get out of this mindset?
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CHILL, I am getting to that part. Which brings me to my first point.
PATIENCE.
This shit ain’t overnight, unfortunately. I remember being sold the idea that the way to achieving an abundance mindset was fast. Well, take it from someone who has read and watched every fucking YouTube video imaginable on it while also implementing every method in the book for years, it's not.
Think of it like a relationship. It takes time to trust and become aware of your patterns so you can have a better relationship. Suppressed triggers will come up, and you learn how to handle each one as it does. Although an abundance mindset will not be overnight, the great news is that you can start adopting this mindset overnight. You can literally choose to wake up one day and just start integrating it. Here is how:
Let's start with the root cause, and I truly believe it is from an unworthiness wound (you can read my story and advice here on it). Did you believe that people who had more money than you were “worthier” than you were? How have you felt when you heard of other's successes and how much more money they made than you? When you see rich people, how do you feel internally? Are you jealous? Annoyed? Do you scoff at them? You need to become aware of how you are feeling in these moments, and start turning your language around.
Click here to learn more about the language of abundance.
Now that you are prepared to be patient, and try to truly just enjoy the journey of this all, it's time to really do some shadow work.
Yeah, nobody wants to actually see the shitty parts of themselves that they so loudly judge in others. You can lie, get defensive, be condescending, judge someone off of their looks, want to seek revenge, attention, and validation. Guess what? Welcome to being a fucking human! The more you can learn to accept these parts of yourself, while showing them love and still having that intention to improve yourself, the better. And ironically, once you can accept these parts in yourself, the more they are actually released from you and the free-er you will feel, and the improvements to them will be almost automatic because you no longer see them as "shitty," you accept them. It's like being short or tall, you can't hide that from the world (sorry Hinge or Tinder profiles), you have accepted this about yourself. It's just another part of you. This is how the shadow is. It is your perception and the meaning you give to these parts of yourself that matters. Derail yourself from this toxic narrative that in order to attract or live in abundance, you need to be all love and light. Fuck that shit. Light needs the darkness to be seen.
Okay, next it's time to focus on the good.
Cliche I fucking know, but hear me out.
And how the fuck do you do this? Welp, realize that your brain has been so focused on the lack in your life. It's been focused on not having enough. Not having enough food, money, people, experiences, or time. You have to IMMEDIATELY catch each and every thought about this, it may be so ingrained you don't even realize this.
I had to really work on this pattern and flip it. Transforming this thought pattern began here. And this brings me to my next point.
YOU HAVE TO BE DELUSIONAL.
YES. you need to be delulu for it to become trululu. Delusion can be the solution here.
And the good kind of delusion, not the toxic kind.
This means that even though you see nothing but "shit" around you, you need to pretend you are in your dream world.
For example, when I was living with my dad in a tiny room and a twin bed, I would delude myself into thinking that I was in a king size bed in my own apartment before I would get up each morning.
And it fucking worked.
A few months later, I was finally able to get my own apartment in my king size bed. and though this may not seem like the biggest manifestation, a few months before this time in my life, I was unemployed for 6 months, got dumped and kicked out of the house I was staying in with my ex partners, and moved back in with my dad at 28. I was seeing rejection email after rejection email. I was alone majority of the time, as my dad would work from 8am to about 9pm at night. I took those months to really heal, do shadow work, rewire my limiting beliefs, and get myself back on my feet. I am very fortunate to have the father that I do, where I did not have to pay rent and had a place to stay until I tried to figure my shit out. I knew that I had to see the light through it all.
Which then brings us to gratitude.
Another cliche, but how the fuck do you expect abundance to come your way if you fucking hate everything in your life? You really think that will attract more abundance? When I first started doing affirmations and trying to be grateful for my life, it felt so fucking forced. I actually felt the “ick” from it, and I knew that wasn't normal. I knew I had to keep practicing. Then suddenly, bouts of gratitude would flood over me, and I'd be bawling tears of joy. From the gratitude I felt for my dad, or even just having a warm bed to sleep in.
Now, when it came to feeling more abundant in money, it was more difficult.
I had actually manifested a six-figure corporate job before, and this ironically made me realize how tainted my relationship with money really was. I grew up poor, so manifesting this job felt like I was worthy enough now. I completely attached to it, I couldn't lose it now, it was a part of my identity now. It was an egoic desire.
I eventually got let go of from this job, and couldn't find another job for 6 months. In fact I didn't go back into corporate. I realized it wasn't my true desire. I didn't think I could make money or live in happiness any other way, even if I fucking hated working in corporate. After doing some healing and shadow work, my true purpose started coming to the forefront of my desires, and that was sharing my voice through writing. Wanting to be a conscious entrepreneur and help others to heal from what I have learned. My true passion. I started to expand my conscious beliefs, and started to really see what was possible for me.
YOUR ENVIRONMENT
Listen, your environment isn't always going to be perfect. You won't always be surrounded by wonderful, abundant people. But, the more you can surround yourself in abundant environments, the better. This can look like just going to walk around expensive stores in the mall, or going to rich restaurants or richer parts of a city. You don't necessarily have to spend money, just put yourself in those environments. Go randomly tour some apartment that you don't think you could get, just to show your mind what is possible.
And the last and most important step to an abundance mindset is language. This is in conjunction with the above steps, but it is the one that will affect you the most. It’s your entire thinking process, your entire secret to creating a dream reality, and although the context is simple, the actual doing of it is difficult.
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